Really, I have no clue where men are from but it's certain that men and women are from different planets. I always thought that was a good thing because if we were both from the same place, wouldn't it be.... boring??? That's what I thought. I'm starting to think otherwise.
I also always thought a man and a woman could be friends and nothing more. Maybe a gay man and a straight woman or a gay woman and a straight man, but I don't think a straight man and a straight woman can be friends and that's it. Nothing else. Nada. Nope. Because it doesn't seem to matter what happens but one always seems to either want to have sex with the other one (and this could be for the plain simple reason of just wanting to see what it's like) OR one starts to LIKE the other one, as in, romantic feelings. BAH!!!!!! And I have to tell ya' - it sucks on either end. Don't think it's a one way street and you only get the shaft if you're the one doing the liking. WRONG. Here you could have found this awesome platonic friendship - someone to hang out with, be yourself with, talk about almost anything, get the opposite sex perspective, and BAM! they start looking at you like..... you know how.... with stars in their eyes. Something changes somewhere. Maybe you know when it happened or maybe you don't. But it happened somewhere along the way and all of a sudden, one of you want something more. WHYYYYY? It was going along so well. WHY DOES IT HAVE TO GET ALL FUCKED UP???? And you KNOW it's not going to end well. But the one that has fallen says "no, no, no.... it's fine, we'll just keep being friends" and you're thinking "oh yeah.... this is going to work" but you go along with it and you don't change anything, you just keep doing what you were doing but somehow, you've led them on. How does this happen? You didn't do anything differently but because THEIR feelings changed, YOU led them on. It's soooooo very wrong.
So now you have to have the talk to straighten it all out. You have to be the wretched, rotten, douche bag of a person that lays it on the line because even though you did NOTHING differently, you are somehow to blame for another person being hurt. One that you happen to care about, by the way. One who you consider a very, very good friend. Think that's going to go down the perverbial drain???? Oh the drama - anyone who knows me knows how much I hate drama. I left all my drama in North Carolina - his name is Ray Bray (no, I have no idea why anyone would name a child that). He's someone else's drama now (did ya' hear - he's engaged a fourth or fifth or maybe even sixth time- who really knows how many - to get married for the third time?!?!?!?!? LOL). So here we go.... let's be the asshole who has to ask the tough questions like "why did you think things were going to change" and shit like that. Now you're the jackass. You're the heartless bitch who has no feelings. But really.... you do.
You know what? I don't think a man and a woman can be just friends and only friends. There. I said it. Are you happy now?
Isn't that a song?
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